I guess people are into relationship for various reasons if they are asked. A loving relationship allows both partners grow strong, gives space when needed, provides support, encourage and makes life beautiful even though life is filled with challenges, a loving relationship allows both to overcome.
When you don’t get this out of a relationship, then I say it’s abusive . When your partner treats you like shot, I will say it’s abusive. If he or she hit you then it’s abusive. Why wait before you get out of such a relationship. It my be the death of you.